Though bondage is the main term used for describing the act of tying someone up, it can be broken down into different categories of more specific detail. In the case of this discussion, we will turn our focus to breast bondage.
There are many different reasons why breast bondage is appealing to so many people. One of the more common reasons is the visual aspects of the act. Properly binding the breasts, it makes them look perkier, bigger, and more voluptuous.
But what exactly is breast bondage? It is a technique that involves ropes, webbing, straps, or even harnesses to bind and tie a woman’s breasts in an erotic or decorative manor. Ropes are the most commonly used, and it is an art form that often focuses mostly on the aesthetic appeal instead of immobilizing the woman. The glorious thing about breast bondage, however, is that it can be combined with other forms of bondage to increase the appeal and ad a more dominant assertion over a sub.
Though there are many ways to bind the breasts, and many different types of bonding tools. There is also an assortment of toys that add to the pleasure, visual, and even torture appeal to breast bondage.
Suction Tools
Recently becoming more prominent in the breast bondage scene, nipple suction devices are cups placed on the nipple where there is, obviously, suction applied. There are hand pumps and also electric motors that can apply suction to the nipple.
Nipple Clamps
Seen as the most common of the breast bondage toys, nipple clamps are used in safely clamping down on the nipples. This can add pressure and pinching from just a minor twinge to a crushing pain. Most of the clamps you can purchase have different adjustments so you can find the right level of pain and pleasure for yourself.
There are an assortment of different types of clamps; Alligator, vice, clover, and tweezer are the most common. These clamps are most often paired with a variety of attachments, such as; vibrating attachments, rings, weights, and chains. It is advised that clamps should never be worn for more than an hour of continuous use. Allow a resting period of 15 minutes before reapplying. Be advised, to beginners, some of these toys are quite intense and though they have gentle toys you should always proceed softly when finding the right type of clamp for you.
Different Types of Breast Play
Once bonded, there are a range of different play/torture techniques used to enhance pleasure/pain in this lover’s activity. As if breast bondage wasn’t enough to get your rocks off, there are a variety of different activities you can do to increase the intensity of the moment for you and your partner.
#1 Piercing
This is considered one of the more extreme forms of nipple play, often labeled under the torture category. It should not be practiced carelessly as there are some risks to this play and shouldn’t be performed without a little research and self-educating. There are both temporary and permanent piercings, and sometimes this can lead into blade play, but we shouldn’t dive too far into that right now.
#2 Flagellation
After binding the breasts, it is not uncommon for some women, and men, to find a sexual thrill in flagellation. This is the act of beating the breasts with either your hands or specific toys to add a pleasuring pain to the experience. However, be mindful of the delicate nature of the breasts as they do bruise easily and being too rough could prove to be counterproductive.
#3 Wax Play
There are special waxes that burn at a lower temperature which are ideal to be used as body wax. After binding it is a common practice for some couples to use wax on the body to add pleasure and pain to the experience. This could also be considered temperature play which has many different forms. Be mindful, there are risks of scars and severe burns with this type of play so practice safety on sensitive areas.
#4 Clamps & Suction
Beating a dead horse, I know. Though we covered these two already it is worth noting that the clamping and suction play is still the most common and viewed as the most erotic for both partners. Compared to some of the other play, this is the vanilla versions of the breast bondage world.
Safety First
Though it is easy to get caught up in the excitement of nipple play and breast bondage, it is important to practice safety and learn your boundaries before getting too wild. For starters, with nipple play, it is advised that you start off with using your hands to manually squeeze and pinch the nipple, twist them to find out how much pressure your partner wants applied.
It is important to know that the breast tissue is much more sensitive than the tissue on the rear. You are more likely to lacerate the breasts than you would a bum cheek. That being said, nipples are much more resilient than you would think. Especially women’s nipples. They are built to withstand breast feeding which can be painful and taxing on its own.
There is a greater risk of irritation and infection in inverted nipples. So, proceed carefully. It is vital that you avoid pinching and clamping the skin around the nipple rather than just the nipple itself. Also, on an important note, with inverted nipples you should avoid anything that pierces or cuts to avoid an added risk of infection.
Lastly, sterilization. Make sure that any and all toys are properly cleaned and sterilized for safe play. By doing so you reduce the risk of infection and unwanted results of clamping or piercing due to dirt or germs on your tools. Whenever bleeding is a possibility, make sure you always wear sterile gloves to avoid disease transmission.
This introduction into breast bondage is for educational purposes, and we hope you take as much as you can handle from it and have some fun. Always practice safety, and know your partner’s boundaries.